Change is something I will always struggle with. I wish my friends on their birthdays to “stay cool, stay awesome and stay the same” because I “love you just the way they are”.
At the same time, I know that change is something I cannot control. We grow and go through changes over time and it may not always sit well with others but, we still have to let nature take its course. I’ve come to realise that change is necessary. Even when the night changes, I’ll come into my own every single day in hopes of becoming a person someone could look up to or at least look to for comfort.
Next time on birthdays, when I wish someone, I’d tell them to “Be the person you’re meant to be. Seize the day and embrace your transformation” because if it were truly someone I cared for, I’d be happy for them. Regardless of distance, space and time…
“I will truly be happy for you”.